Changes

Hello,

So today I wanted to talk about changes and changing. So lately I've been through lots of changes and I wanted to share my point of view on the topic of changing.

I think change is GOOD. Changing is amazing. I believe that change is a fundimental part in the process of growing and learning because when you grow and you learn you have different points of view about things, it can be as simple as music, but it also could be about yourself, or someone else.  I look back at myself and how I was 1 year ago and I can see I've changed a lot, but I also can look back to myself 1 month ago and I can see changes.

I do feel that us, people, we don't like to let go or to say goodbye. But I feel that sometimes that goodbye is for the best, accepting you've changed and embracing that change can lead you to endless possibililities. By accepting that you changed your opinion about something or that you've changed as a person can help you find new people. For example: Lets say that I change and now I like a different kind of music, lets say that I liked R&B but now I like Alternative more. I can start talking to someone that likes Alternative music too and who knows, we may have more than that thing in common and we may end up as really good friends. Or lets say that by liking one Alternative group I find more artists I like too.

But it could be way bigger than just music tastes. Lets say that you changed and you start to hang out with other people. That will be very different than maybe your old friends.

Saying all of that I did wanted to say something else. Lets say that I am bored and I want to change. It doesn't necesarily mean that I have to have a make-over. I came to the conclusion that to change you have to try new things and to not be afraid.

But there is also a different kind of change and that is other people changing. I am seeing how my friends change. I see them coming closer and growing distant. I will tell you that seeing others change is a whole other deal, you see them moving on and it can hurt because you are loosing them in some level. But just a little piece of advice: Let them be.

Personally I suck at seeing things and people going away, but I do understand that I have to learn to let things go. See, I have a problem, I always set all my hopes too high, and when it comes to seeing them ruined I kind of say 'Okay, it's gone. Get over it' But a part of me holds on to them. Sometimes it is good but sometimes it is really bad. But I know that in the end everyting I have and everyone I know will go away.

So to close this what I'm basically saying is that: Change is great, to change you have to not be afraid of new stuff, people change and go away and it hurts, but we have to learn to let things go.

One last little thing: Change for yourself and NEVER change for other people.

Bye! Have a lovely day!
SLA
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So Happy Halloween because it is Halloween Week and for my favourites I will just tell you that my favorite halloween movies are Hocus Pocus and The Nightmare Before Christmas.

Also NaNoWriMo is starting in Friday so good luck to everyone participating!

Me

Hello,
So today I'm going to be introducing myself I guess? So to start off my name is Sophie. I like to sleep. Well what can I say about myself? I am really excited about this blog, it is not the first time I've started a blog but I feel this time I'll persevere. I'm at a pretty good point in my life and even though I do have problems I'm feeling good most of the time. I started this blog to get somethings out. I want to become a writer and I guess I could just write about my really awkward life and see if anyone finds it interesting. So this is how everything goes in my mind about things:
        A) I don't care
        B) I have a really strong opinion about it.
And option B) is the reason why I opened this blog to express those opinions and if I offend someone with those opinions then I'm sorry.

So before I go on and give you guys a list of things you should know about me I'm going to tell you how this thing will go. I'll be posting once a week I promise, if not I'll be telling you guys before and posting the post that will belong to the week I won't post before. Every week I'll put at the end a little thing were I say things I'm currently obsessed about like music or a book or a TV show or a movie or a quote or a video or something.

So lets go on and I'll just tell you the basics:

• I'm an internet adict I can spend ages in YouTube or tumblr. 
• I'm not a girly-girl I'm more of a jeans and baggy-shirt kind of girl
• I want to travel all over the world 
• I have no idea of what I want to do with my life
• I'm SUPER random
• I love sweets
• Fall is my favourite season! 
• My birthday is the 22nd of July
• I do have lots of friends but just a very tiny small bunch of them I really consider close
• I have trust issues
• I'm quite short
• My favourite colour is red
• My favourite animal is a dragon-panda-unicorn hybrid
• If I feel interest in something I look into it
• I consider myself as a smart person who can have an eloquent conversation
• I get along better with adults than with people my age or close to my age
• I love little kids they're SO cute
• I love cloudy and rainy cold days
• I'm not that interested in boys right now because I just see all my friends stress out over having a boyfriend and liking someone so I'll rather stay away from that and enjoy being young
• I don't go out that much
• I'm obsessed with TV Shows
• I LOVE to read
• I have a huge crush over Tom Hiddleston and Benedict Comberbatch

Bye! Have a lovely day!
SLA
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I've been currently loving Lorde she's and indie music artist from New Zealand and she's 16 years-old. I love her sound because it's just SO different from everything else in the radio right now. It's like a mix of like Lana Del Rey and Florence + The Machine and like I can feel  a bit of Marina and The Diamonds in some songs. But check her out she is amazing, and don't judge her for what she's said about like Miley Cyrus or Selena Gomez but rather as an artist because she is great,

And I've been loving EllaGrace in YouTube she isn't a huge YouTuber but she is really funny and deserves so many more subscribers

Pops

Hello,

To start off I want everyone to know that this is entry is NOT about Pop music or Pop art or Pop culture but about the 'Pops' better known as the popular kids. So in my school, in my grade there is the 'Popular Gang'. The kids that believe themselves SO attractive and SO funny and SO much better than everyone else. And the truth is that personally I just find them SO annoying. Ok so lets go back to my 1st grade. New school. New town. New people. I met them and I haven't liked them ever since. Not that I'm an extremely closed person I've given each and every one of the members of the Pops plenty chances to prove me wrong and show me that they're actually kind, down-to-earth, cool, deep people I'll quite enjoy having a talk with. But EVERY SINGLE TIME they just prove to be the total opposite of that. I can't say I hate them, because I really don't. Hate is such a strong thing, I'll just say I strongly dislike them. I do hope they find happiness and that someday in 10 years or so I can see them achieve their goals because I do believe that they're good people deep inside their thick layer of fakeness. Because they ARE fake. Acting like if it is fine talking shit of your 'friends' behind their backs. I know that they don't like me at all. And they know I don't like them at all. They don't like me because I speak my mind, because I don't care about what they say, because I don't feel like they are any better than everyone else and because they know that if they go through something hard I'm willing to help, and that if I go through something hard they really aren't willing to do the same. I know they talk about me, and I know that they don't do it in a kind way, and I'll be honest and tell you I would like to know how many ridiculous things they say about me. Because 90% of that stuff would be LIES, they have nothing to back-up all of those things they say because they just see the tip of the iceberg, and if they do believe they know me then they are REALLY wrong. They don't know a lot of where I come from and how my past was, they don't know a lot of my aspirations and hobbies, and likes and dislikes and my dreams and what I do and all that stuff. I know it may sound so wrong saying that because I don't know them that well too but all I'm saying here is either how I personally feel about them or things I can prove true. I don't know why seeing them makes me feel so sorry for them... Talking about accepting yourself and all that stuff and then being so closed-minded and not even giving themselves a chance to try to understand someone. Just to make everything clear I AM willing to say everything I'm stating right know to their faces. And you may say 'She's just jealous and wants to be like them' but I'm totally happy with my life, specially with my life at this moment because it's great. I have everything I need, a family, a friend I can really count with, amazing life projects, a house, food, and happiness. I wouldn't swap my life with someone elses for any reason in the world. I know this is kind of a weird first post, but i just felt like talking about this topic and soon I'll make a post to introduce myself. Well that's it for now.

Bye! Have a lovely day!

SLA